Contrast.

Contrast: it tells you the other side too. A crying baby: it's alive. A bored child: he isn't starving. A son that weeps: he isn't a cold hearted bastard. A daughter/sister who needs so much attention: she loves you. A husband that snores: he's alive and next to you. A wife that is hurt by his sins: she loves him. Feeling lost: knowing you're supposed to be in a specific place. Experiencing pain: you can still feel. Fear: you still hope. Darkness: you've known light and color. Sin: there must also be righteousness out there too. And if someone is truly righteous, they are merciful too.